The month of 'lluuuvvvv'--Valentines Day--the time where everyone thinks about their relationships. But at this time of year, we are thinking of it mostly in romantic terms. In our surveys, we have found that women spend far more time on learning how to 'attract' or 'keep' a relationship, then looking at the condition of it, or leaving it.

If you look at most of the connection Books, it's all about how to find him, attract him, keep him, and get back together with him. But what if what you always seem to attract is unHealthy men? Then your Guy Magnet is not a good thing. Women who have been in hazardous relationships are often more 'attracted to' the bad boys then wholesome men. In fact, most women say that if given the select between the 'nice guy' and the 'edgey bad boy' they would pick the guy with 'the edge.' Women say they often don't even know what 'Healthy is' in a relationship. Even knowing that they don't know what 'Healthy is' does not slow them or stop them from dating until they frame out what wholesome looks like. They keep doing the same thing and getting the same thing--dangerous relationships.
Time Out: Game Off! If your last 3 or 4 relationships have been unhealthy or even down right dangerous, Stop. Put yourself on a 'Do Not Date Program' until you get some help to find out 'how to spot' unhealthy and hazardous relationships. You Can'T turn What You Don'T See.