"I love you" is a "sweetest" one liner...we all likes to listen...not only once in a year but everyday. Though there should not be any single occasion or time for one to express his or her love to any man whom they love...it should be often and regular, but how many of us surely understand the meaning and importance of love. Population across the globe...we all love to be loved by others...by our parents, by our friends and by that "Special" man of our life. Often we don't understand the importance of love...feelings and emotions. There is a misconception that your love for that special man starts from bedroom.
To start with...Why does one love? Is it to find an flee from the pains of loneliness or is it to feel the warmth of fulfillment that it brings to one's heart? To me, love is the considerable of all being. One cannot exist without the love of another. To live for another makes a life unblemished in every way. Each beat of one's heart, each breath, each small notion signifies a Small part of a love that is shared with another.
Who does one love? Are two Population destined to come together or is it by occasion alone? Only one's heart can tell when love has come. It can feel the longing desire from its deepest point and it can feel the overpowering attraction when they are close. One loves whom his heart has chosen.
When does one love? Does one share their love in the soft mist of the early morning or in the crisp zephyr of the darkening night? Those that are truly in love know no night or day, no dark or light. Love is a continuous thing.
So, if you find yourself in love with man who does not love you, be polite with yourself. There is nothing wrong with you. Love just didn't select to rest in the other person's heart.
And if you find man else in love with you and you don't love him/her, feel honored that love came and called at your door, but gently refuse the gift you cannot return. Do not take advantage. Do not cause pain. How you deal with love is how you deal with you, and all our hearts feel the same pains and joys, even if our lives and ways are different.
And if you fall in love with someone, he/she falls in love with you and then love chooses to leave, do not try to reclaim it or to collate blame, let it go. There is a presuppose and there is a meaning. You will know in time. Remember that you don't select love. Love chooses you. All you can surely do is accept it for all its strangeness when it comes into your life.
Feel the way it fills you to overflowing, then reach out and give it away. Give it back to the man who brought it alive in you. Give it to others who deem it poor in spirit. Give it to the world colse to you in any way you can. There is where many lovers go wrong. Having been so long without love, they understand love only as a need. They see their hearts as empty places that will be filled by love, and they begin to look at love as something that flows to them Rather than from them.
The first blush of new love is filled to overflowing, but as their love cools, they revert to looking their love as need. They cease to be man who generates love and instead come to be man who seeks love. They forget that the secret of love is that it is a gift, and that it can be made to grow only by giving it away.
Remember this, and keep it to your heart. Love has its own time, its own seasons, and its own presuppose for arrival and going. You cannot bribe it or coerce it, or presuppose it into saying. You can only embrace it when it arrives and give it away when it comes to you. But if it chooses to leave from your heart or from the heart of your lover, there is nothing you can do and there is nothing you should do.
Love all the time has been and all the time will be a mystery. Be glad that it came to live for a moment in your life. If You Keep Your Heart Open, It Will Come Again.
Why Valentines Day?
In the third century, the Roman Empire was ruled by Emperor Claudius Ii Gothicus. He was nicknamed Claudius the Cruel because of his harsh leadership and his tendency for getting into wars and abusing his people. In fact, he was getting into so many wars while the third century that he was having a difficult time recruiting adequate soldiers.
Claudius believed that recruitment for the army was down because Roman men did not want to leave their loves or families behind, so he canceled all marriages and engagements in Rome. Thousands of couples saw their hopes of matrimony dashed by the single act of a tyrant. And no one seemed concerned in standing up to the emperor.
But a simple Christian minister named Valentine did come transmit and stood up for love. He began to conspiratorially marry soldiers before they went off to war, despite the emperor's orders. In 269 Ad Emperor Claudius found out about the secret ceremonies. He had Valentine thrown into prison and deemed that he would be put to death.
As Valentine was awaiting execution, he fell in love with a blind girl, who happened to be the jailers daughter. On the eve of his execution, with no writing instruments available, Valentine is said to have written her a sonnet in ink that he squeezed from violets. Legend has it that his words made the blind woman see again. It was a brief romance because the next day Valentine was clubbed to death by Roman executioners.
St. Valentine gave his life so that young couples could be bonded together in holy matrimony. They may have killed the man, but not his spirit. Even centuries after his death, the story of Valentine's self-sacrificing commitment to love was legendary in Rome. Finally he was granted Sainthood and the Catholic Church decided to originate a feast in his honor. They picked February 14 as the day of celebration because of the ancient confidence that birds (particularly lovebirds, but also owls and doves) began to mate on that very day.
It's surprising to know that Valentine's Day is surely founded on the notion of love in marriage. On This Valentine's Day, what are you doing to keep the love in your marriage burning? While giving a gift and card, having a candlelight dinner, and sharing special words of love are all important, the true spirit of Valentine's Day needs to last throughout the year.
So, on this Valentine's Day...I like to ask you...will you be my Valentine. I don't promise to you...stars and moon, I know that the life ahead is not going to be a bed of roses...but I promise that I will keep you happy. I will not give tears to your eyes. I will be true and rigorous to you. I wish you to walk with me, in this journey of life...together...holding hands. I want to hug you tight...close to my heart...so that nothing can harm you. So, will you be my valentine...not for today...not for one year...but for my life...till the time I breathe my last.
I know that you think that I don't even mean a single word I say. But it's only words and words are all I have to take your heart away. This world has lost its glory let's start a brand new story now my love. (Words...BoyZone)
"I love you"...for what you are and as you are...with all that you have...with your past and present...with your good and bad qualities...with your strengths and weaknesses. For me "I love you" is not just a sentence...for me every "I love you" is a promise, a commitment to stand by the man you love- anyone the odds, anyone the outcome, anyone the cost. Every "I love you" is a pact. A sworn oath to stick by each other, to be there for each other, no matter what personal sell out is necessary, and no matter what Consequences may befall. Every "I love you" has nothing to do with touches, or kisses, or sweet nothings whispered in an attentive ear.? I love you" is more than all these things. It means loyalty and honor and trust without the prospect of the same in return.
Again, I know that you think that I don't even mean a single word I say. But it's only words and words are all I have to take your heart away. This world has lost its glory let's start a brand new story now my love. (Words...BoyZone)
Walk with me, the path of life,to study every bend of the road. Enjoy with me the charm of life,along its astounding way. Find ease with me, in each other's arms, when grief crosses our path. Find compel with me, in each other's strength, when despair lies in wait. Laugh with me, a single true laugh, to enlighten another's distress. Cry with me, a single true tear, to understand true happiness. Cherish with me, the wonders of life, as they need to be preserved. Rejoice with me, in the mysteries, of what is yet to be. Find peace with me, in each other's souls, when the world has gone insane. Find love with me, in each other's hearts, until this life has been fulfilled. And when the path comes to an end I hope we can say from within, we've known the charm of true love, our love came from within.
I know that you still think that I don't even mean a single word I say. But it's only words and words are all I have to take your heart away. This world has lost its glory let's start a brand new story now my love. (Words...BoyZone)
It's only words and words are all I have to take your heart away. This world has lost its glory let's start a brand new story now my love. (Words...BoyZone)
With lots of love...and Care
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